Gifts for a 4 year old who already has everything
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By 4, most kids have more toys than floor. The gifts that still land fall into four groups: things that get used up, things that add to a set they already love, their first real games, and things to do rather than own. Pick from those and you will not be adding to the pile under the bed.
Everything here is a current best seller, with a typical price and the maker's age rating under each one, and the catch that the box leaves off.
Play-Doh Ultimate Color Collection, 65 cans
For the kid whose Play-Doh is all one brown lump. Sixty five one-ounce cans in about sixty colors, including sparkle and confetti. The small cans are the point: one at a time comes out, the rest stay sealed, and the set lasts months instead of a weekend. It is a consumable dressed up as a gift, and at this age that is exactly right. Keep the big tools they already have; this is just the dough.
PicassoTiles 100 Piece Magnetic Tiles
For the kid who already has magnetic tiles. More tiles is a better gift than a new toy, because a 4 year old's builds are limited by piece count, not imagination. This hundred piece set is the cheapest way to double a collection, and PicassoTiles stack with most other brands' tiles, so it does not matter whose set they started with. The magnets are weaker than the premium brands, so tall towers lean. Kids do not care.
LEGO Classic Medium Creative Brick Box
For the kid moving on from the big blocks. This is the plain box of regular LEGO bricks in a pile of colors, with windows, eyes, wheels and a green baseplate thrown in. No instructions to lose and no model to finish. The bricks are small, so this is the one gift on the list to hold until the kid is actually 4 and any younger sibling is out of the mouthing stage. The box lid is flimsy; plan on a bin.
Melissa & Doug Pattern Blocks and Boards
For the kid who likes puzzles but is bored by puzzles. A wooden box of 120 shaped tiles and five boards with patterns to fill. At 4 they copy the picture; at 5 they ignore the boards and make their own. The tiles are the right size to vanish into a heating vent, which is the only complaint anyone has about this set.
Melissa & Doug Scoop and Serve Ice Cream Counter
For the kid who runs a restaurant out of the living room. A wooden counter with a scooper that actually picks up the wooden scoops, 28 pieces of ice cream and toppings, cones, cups and a little menu. It is the most expensive thing on this list and the one that gets played with by every child who walks into the house. The scoops roll and the toppings are small, so it wants a shelf of its own.
Meland Doctor Kit with Puppy
For the kid who gives everyone a checkup. A rolling case of doctor tools, a plush dog to be the patient, and a dress-up coat. Amazon files this under gifts for girls, which is marketing; any 4 year old will give the dog a shot. The case is the best part, since pretend doctors are messy and this one packs itself up. The plastic is light and the stethoscope does not work, in case the kid asks.
Hungry Hungry Hippos
For the kid who is ready for a real game with real rules. This version reloads the marbles automatically, which removes the one part of Hungry Hungry Hippos that used to end in tears. It is loud. It takes about ninety seconds to play and they will want to play it eleven times. It is also the first game most 4 year olds can win fairly against an adult, which matters more than it sounds.
Do You Have Any Farting Unicorns?
For the kid who thinks the word "fart" is the funniest thing in the world, which is every 4 year old. It is Go Fish with ridiculous card names and a few twists, two to six players, ten minutes a round. Go Fish is the right first card game because holding cards is the hard part and the rules are not. The cards are standard thin stock, so do not expect them to survive juice.
Kids Play Tunnel
For the kid who climbs on the furniture in February. A pop-up fabric tunnel that gives a 4 year old somewhere to go inside the house. It folds flat into a disc for the closet, it works with the couch cushions for forts, and the dog will use it too. It is not a toy they ask for and it is the one they end up in every day. If there is room for something bigger, a play tent is the same idea with a door.
Bouncy Pals Dinosaur Hopper
For the kid with energy and nowhere to put it. An inflatable bouncing animal with a plush cover that zips off and washes. A 4 year old is at the top of the size range, so this is a gift for a small or average 4 year old, not a tall one. It takes a bike pump to inflate and it is quiet on carpet. The plush cover is why you buy this one instead of the bare rubber version from your own childhood.
GeoSafari Jr. Kidnoculars
For the kid you want to get outside. These are binoculars built for a face that is three inches wide: a single wide eyepiece, no focusing, only two times magnification, and a strap that pops apart if it catches. Two times is not much, and that is fine, because the point is that they see a bird and it is a little bigger. Pair this with a walk, not a wrapped box.
LEGO Marvel Spidey on his Motorcycle vs. Rhino
For the kid who has graduated to following instructions. A small set with two minifigures and a motorcycle, built on LEGO's starter brick that makes the first steps easier for a new builder. It is a twenty minute build with a parent and then it is a toy. If the kid is into something other than Spidey, LEGO makes a version of this set for most of the shows a 4 year old watches, and the small ones all run about the same price.
Gifts that aren't things
A membership to the zoo, the children's museum or the aquarium is the best gift for a kid who has everything, because it is a year of Saturdays rather than a box. Split it with another relative if the price stings.
A magazine subscription. Highlights High Five is made for this age and a 4 year old loses their mind when something arrives in the mail with their name on it.
A date with you. One afternoon, their choice, no siblings. Write it on a card and put the card in a box so there is still something to open.
Questions parents ask
What do you get a 4 year old who has everything?
Something that adds to a set they already play with, like more magnetic tiles or more LEGO, or something they use up, like Play-Doh. If the room is truly full, buy an outing or a membership instead of an object. Ask the parents what the kid has ignored and do not buy anything in that category.
How much should you spend on a 4 year old?
Less than you think. The things a 4 year old plays with most are usually in the ten to forty dollar range, and the expensive gifts in this age group are more often for the parents than the kid. If several relatives are buying, one bigger shared gift beats five small ones.
Are experience gifts good for a 4 year old?
Yes, if there is still something to open. A 4 year old understands "we are going to the zoo" but does not feel it on the day. Put the membership card, a stuffed animal from the place, or a photo in a box so the morning still has a present in it.
What toys do 4 year olds actually play with?
Open ended things: blocks, tiles, dough, a play kitchen or shop, dress up, and the first simple games they can win. Toys that do one thing with a button get a week. Toys that let them be in charge get a year.
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Add anything you like to your list, or to a list you keep for your kid. The family claims quietly, and nobody buys the same thing twice.
